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Issue #5: My Big Fat Ego Problem
Hard To Fit That Noggin Through The Door
Hey, it’s Greg
Welcome back, intrepid entrepreneurs, side hustlers, and corporate mavericks!
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Here is what we will hit on today:
🎯 The KISS Principle: How my ego and over-complicating things nearly tanked my first consulting gig
🔗 New section alert! Check out our curated links for tips, tools, and tricks to level up your hustle
🚶♂️ Sometimes, walking away is the best business move
💼 The unexpected benefits of passion projects and pro bono work
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THE DEEP DIVE
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The KISS Principle
As an entrepreneur-in-training and budding consultant, I recently embarked on my quest for that elusive first client. Armed with enthusiasm, a wealth of corporate experience, and a dash of naivety, I set out to conquer the consulting world. Spoiler alert: It didn't quite go as planned. But fear not, dear readers, for my stumbles shall be your stepping stones!
The Tale of Three Proposals
Picture this: Me, hunched over my laptop, fueled by an alarming amount of coffee, crafting what I believed to be the most impressive proposals known to humankind. I sent out three of these masterpieces, each one a testament to... well, mostly to my own ego, as it turns out.
The Encyclopedia of Me: 37 pages long, 30 of which were essentially my resume on steroids. Because clearly, what every client wants is a novel about my life story, right?
The Sustainability Crusader: Here, I boldly told the client what they should do, pushing my values of sustainability and affordability. Never mind what the client actually wanted - I knew best!
The Overcomplicated Genius: This proposal was so complex, it made quantum physics look like a children's bedtime story. I threw in every fancy deal structure I could think of, trying to add "certainty" to a project that didn't need it yet.
The Wake-Up Call
After sending these proposals, I waited for the accolades to roll in. Instead, I got a simple question that stopped me in my tracks: "What value are you going to add?"
Cue the sound of crickets.
I realized I had no idea. In my eagerness to impress, I'd completely lost sight of what really mattered - the client's needs.
The KISS Principle to the Rescue
It was time to go back to the drawing board. I reflected on my approach and remembered a principle I'd conveniently forgotten: KISS - Keep It Simple, Stupid.
As Charles Mingus once said, "Making the simple complicated is commonplace; making the complicated simple, awesomely simple, that's creativity."
This quote hit me like a ton of bricks. I'd been trying so hard to appear smart and valuable that I'd overcomplicated everything. True creativity and value lie in simplifying the complex, not the other way around.
The Comeback
Armed with this revelation, and luckily, one of three clients was amazingly patient, I revised my proposal:
Kept it concise and focused on the client's needs
Offered a simple, short-term solution with room for growth
Emphasized collaboration and mutual benefit
The result? An unconfused, happier client (awesome dude and a reader of this newsletter), a new, promising partnership and a valuable lesson learned
The Takeaway
For all you aspiring entrepreneurs and side hustlers out there, remember:
Focus on the client, not yourself
Keep it simple
Provide clear value
Be open to learning and adapting
In the end, it's not about showcasing how smart you are - it's about solving problems and adding value in the simplest, most effective way possible.
So, the next time you're tempted to write a 37-page ode to your awesomeness, take a deep breath, channel your inner Mingus, and keep it awesomely simple.
Cover of the 37-page: “Ode To Greg’s Ego”
CURATE & COMMENT
Each week, I brave the wild jungles of 700 newsletters, blogs, and websites, dodging clickbait traps and battling pop-up monsters. Why? To unearth the shiniest gems of wisdom just for you!
My favorite finds
🛠️ Tools & Apps (this week: tools I use to make the newsletter)
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SMALLER DIVE
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Lessons From the Trenches: What This Week Taught Me
Entrepreneurship isn't just about chasing every opportunity; it's about choosing the right battles and knowing when to walk away. This week served up two valuable lessons in the world of business that I'm eager to share with you, my fellow adventurers
Lesson #1: You Don't Have to Dance With Every Partner
Picture this: I'm sitting across from potential clients, including an elderly real estate agent who practically oozed arrogance. His opening line? "Why do we even need you? What value can you bring?" Talk about a warm welcome!
Here's the kicker – I walked away. Yes, you read that right. I provided them with all the information they needed to kickstart their project, even connected them with a reputable development and general contracting business, and then... I bowed out.
The takeaway? Life's too short to work with people who don't value your expertise. Sometimes, the best business decision is knowing when to say "Thanks, but no thanks."
Lesson #2: Free Work Can Pay Off In Passion Projects
On the flip side, I've learned not to dismiss pro bono work, especially when it aligns with your passion. I've been pouring time and effort into a project that doesn't pay – yet. But here's the thing: by consistently adding value and staying engaged, I'm investing in potential future payoffs.
The lesson? Don't shy away from unpaid work if it's your dream project. Your dedication might just open doors you never knew existed.
Remember, fellow entrepreneurs and side hustlers: success isn't just about the bottom line. It's about building relationships, choosing the right opportunities, and sometimes, taking a leap of faith on your passions. Keep grinding, keep learning, and most importantly, keep believing in your journey!
THAT’S A WRAP
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See you next Friday for another dose of entrepreneurial wisdom!
Greg "Side Hustle Sage" Mills
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